Behavior charts, consequences, loss of privileges, time-outs, taking away toys, setting firm boundaries…if you feel like you have tried everything under the sun yet your child’s behaviors are not improving, I want you to know that you’re not crazy, and you’re not alone.
I tried all those with my daughter and they did not help her to meet my expectations, made her explosive behaviors worse, and our relationship dreadful. If you feel depleted and worry that spanking and punishments are the only option left, let me give you hope.